For families & friends
When someone you love is using.
The phone-call dread. The money that goes missing. The promises. Addiction lives in the whole house, not just in one person. This is for you.
Look after yourself first
You can't pour from an empty cup. Sleep, eat, see your own friends. A support group just for you is not selfish.
Talk when they're not using
Pick a calm moment. Say what you've seen and how it makes you feel, without labels like 'junkie' or 'addict'.
You don't have to pay debts
Paying drug debts often leads to more demands. If you're being threatened, talk to the Gardaí and a family support service about drug debt intimidation.
Keep naloxone in the house
If they use opioids, ask a service for naloxone and learn how to use it. It could save their life.
Boundaries are love too
It's OK to say: you can't use here, I won't give you money, but I'll drive you to an assessment any day you want.
Children need the truth, gently
Kids usually know something is wrong. Age-appropriate honesty helps more than silence. Childline is there for them too.
Family support services
Coolmine
Day and residential programmes for men and women, including mothers with children. Free family support groups.
Bushypark (Clarecare)
Residential and day treatment, with a counsellor on duty 8am–9pm.
Extern Problem Gambling
Free counselling for gamblers and families, plus the Stop Gambling app and bank-blocking advice.
Family Addiction Support Network
For families affected by a loved one's addiction, including drug debt intimidation support.
Al-Anon & Alateen
For family and friends affected by someone else's drinking.